Some families considering building their families through alternative means come to therapy with the hope of building upon the strong foundation they already have to prevent and prepare for challenges that lie ahead. Adding to your family through alternative reproduction measures or through adoption/foster care is often a highly stressful process filled with a myriad of decisions and choices. These decisions often come after a long period of grief related to the losses and barriers couples have already faced. I utilize my work as a Certified Gottman Educator to work with families both pre and post placement to strengthen their communication, carve out time for their relationship, and fully welcome, prepare, and adjust to the child they will parent.